Got Consent is a student-led initiative aiming to prevent sexual and gender-based violence, educate students in bystander intervention and support survivors. It is part of StAnd Together, an initiative connected to both the Students’ Association and the University’s Student Services that focuses on student wellbeing and mutual support. Got Consent leads conversations with fellow students through training workshops, informational resources, and awareness events.
What is Consent?
Consent is an agreement between two individuals to engage in sexual and romantic activity. It is freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific (FRIES).
- Freely given means no one is coerced, pressured, or manipulated into agreeing to something they don’t want to do.
- Reversible means consent can be revoked at any time, and everyone feels safe to do so.
- Informed means everyone deserves to know all the relevant information before deciding to do something (i.e. sexual health status, use of contraception or birth control, past partners).
- Enthusiastic means everyone involved is excited about all the activities, not hesitant or stressed. Many people express enthusiasm in different ways. Common ways include through body language, words, and facial expressions. If you're not sure, ask.
- Specific means a person must consent to all the activity happening, every single time—there is no ‘blanket consent’ beyond the specific activity consented to. This also means people engaged in long-term sexual relationships need consent every time.
If you are at all confused about affirmative consent and how to make sure you have it at all times, stop and educate yourself. You can use these resources to better your understanding, give us a message, or sign up to attend one of our workshops.
Training Workshops
GotConsent runs workshops on violence-prevention within student organisations, bystander intervention, healthy masculinity, healthy relationships, and about how violence-prevention includes anti-racism, anti-homophobia, and anti-ablelism work. Our workshops are discussion-based and include tips on safely intervening if you see a situation that could turn violent.
In 2021, Student Council members of the Students’ Association voted for GotConsent Leadership Workshops to become mandatory for all societies and clubs that are Union and Athletic Union affliated. This workshop discusses how leaders have a duty of care for their members, meaning it is their responsibility to create and uphold an open and healthy environment. This includes not forcing people to do things they do not want to do (i.e. drinking alcohol), having resources available for members should they need specific forms of support and making it clear there is a zero tolerance policy for sexual harassment and violence.
If you are a group, society, or club interested in having a Got Consent workshop please fill out this form.
We are prepared to run both in-person and online workshops, so all students are able to attend.
Projects & Events
GotConsent is part of Fife Council’s Violence Against Women Partnership (VAWP). This involves various representatives from Fife Council, NHS, Police Scotland and other community organisations, with an aim to continue the message of the Equally Safe group and provide county-wide resources and awareness.
As part of the VAWP, we ran an exhibition in March 2022 called “What Were You Wearing?”, which displayed the types of clothing that were worn by survivors at the time of their assault, alongside their testimonies. The exhibition has traveled through many Fife locations in the past few years. As part of the exhibition, we gave two workshops to senior pupils from local secondary school, Madras College.
The ‘What Were You Wearing?’ exhibition was also featured on Tay FM radio and STV News.
We are very proud to have successfully made a consent module a mandatory step of online student matriculation from 2020. Members of our committee continue to work alongside the University in annual reviews and updates to the module.
We run a variety of events throughout the year: discussion events with external or internal speakers; film screenings; coffee mornings; open workshops; Sexual Assault Awareness Month events; Reclaim the Night events; and more.
Get Involved
Are you passionate about consent education and tackling SGBV issues? We are currently recruiting the 2023-2024 Got Consent General Committee. Responsibilities include: attending fortnightly meetings, admin tasks, workshop development, event planning, and supporting other committee members with their current projects. The application is open to anyone, including if you are already a GotConsent volunteer, and submissions are due by midnight on September 5th -- fill out this application form if you're interested in getting involved!
If you have any questions please reach out to [email protected]
We're recruiting volunteers throughout the semester, on a rolling basis. Being a volunteer is an amazing way to learn more about sexual and gender-based violence, to improve discussion and leadership skills, and to help make St Andrews a safer place by educating your peers.
Volunteers are given extensive training on the content of our workshops as well as how to run and guide workshop discussions. You will also always be paired with a more experienced facilitator for your first few sessions, until you feel comfortable.
Sign up to volunteer by using this form.
Contact
Resources
Consent & Sexual Health
- Cycling Through Consent – video by Western University demonstrating consent through a bicycle analogy.
- Planned Parenthood’s ‘Sexual Consent’ page.
- Brook has information and advice for a range of topics related to sexual health and wellbeing, including extensive guides on consent.
- Sexual Health Fife offers telephone advice and video consultations. You can reach them at 01592 64 7979, Monday to Friday between 8:30am and 4pm.
Sexual Assault
- The University's Report + Support hub lets you report sexual misconduct, or other forms of non-academic misconduct, either anonymously or with contact details, and lays out the range of support available.
- Fife Rape and Sexual Assault Centre (FRASAC) provides information, advice and support through their website, counselling, and other services.
- Sexual Assault Referral Network (SARN) offers forensic exams after sexual assault without having to go through the police.
- You can report an incident of sexual violence anonymously to CrimeStoppers, online or by calling 0800 555 111.
- Find a comprehensive list of support resources on the Sexual Misconduct webpage if you have experienced sexual assault or harassment.
- Scottish government’s ‘Information and help after sexual assault’ guide.
- Survivors UK provides counselling and helpline services for men affected by sexual violence.
- LGBT Domestic Abuse Scotland provides advice, info and support through their website.
- You can also access support through the Galop National LGBT Domestic Abuse helpline, by calling 0800 999 5428 from Monday to Friday 10am – 5pm, or Wednesday to Thursday 10am – 8pm, or emailing [email protected].
- Rape Crisis Scotland produced a video Guide to the Scottish Justice System.
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